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It’s a Pleasure to Eat Out
That was a sign displayed in several restaurants during my college days. They caused much snickering, but were in fact trying to get people to dine at restaurants rather than home. None the less, it is a pleasure, and one that I particularly savor, as I think, do many hobbyists. I particularly hate the abbreviation commonly used on TER and other sites. It somehow reduces a magical thing to commonality. Why do I love it so? Maybe it is a power thing that is the power to please. To cause someone to take flight on the wings of ecstasy is a wanton pleasure. To feel the convulsive thrill ripple through her body thrills me as well. There is a catch however. Near as I can figure, we males are not very good at it. Now I have been complemented on several occasions, but I probably cannot hold a candle to another woman performing this magical art. Combine that with the simple fact that each woman must be stimulated differently. No two are alike, and that presents a challenge to we uncreative males. It is a problem that is not easily licked (sorry, but the pun was too good not to use), and a single session is not enough. One of the joys of seeing a lady on at least a semi regular basis is to learn where her buttons are, and what works and doesn't. Being intimate with a person is not just a game of hide the salami, but rather learning how another's body works. Mind you this is a two way street, we males don't always work exactly alike. I will readily admit to being quite oral, both with kissing and in other ways. I do not think I am alone in this pleasure.
Seeing and Looking
We all see things, but how often do we take the time to look. There is so much beauty in the world, but our eyes pass over it all too quickly and we are on to the next. Some see trees, but others see white oaks and red maples. Some see the destination, and others see the journey. I prefer to take a bit of time and look, for it is truly a wondrous world. Thus it is also with the ladies we see. Some see talented hookers that will do things that their wives cringe at, yet others look at women who try to make you feel special, and woman who are special Women who bring grace to lovemaking, and joy to our lives. They do this, not just with sexual mechanics, but with empathy, and kindness. To the ladies we see, and those whose words we read on EB, I say thank you, for being you, and for making our lives richer by your mere presence.
Good Manners
There seems to be a belief by many that good manners are situational. If you are speaking to an older person, or someone in authority, you watch your language, and speak nicely. But what about other people? I bring this up because of Julia of Atlanta's latest blog. She tends to share with us some of the creepy letters she gets. What is it about many males that feel that when they speak or correspond with an escort good manners are no longer required? Yes, after screening and the logistics are finalized, you will probably be intimate, but that does not give you license to be overly familiar before hand, and even afterwards. Now if you have a, shall we say non-standard, fetish, do your homework. To come out, before you even know each other, and ask a lady if she performs an act that is normally considered disgusting, is the height of bad manners. Now, maybe after you've seen them, and you two seemed to enjoy each other's company, then maybe it is time for the discussion of your fetish, and that discussion should not assume that you will achieve your aim. Maybe I am naive but treating everyone with courtesy and respect, regardless of the situation, seems to be an excellent policy.
Election
For the past 20 years I have voted in a large metropolitan area. This year, I voted early, though the reason dissolved after it was done. Today, I took a 91 year old woman to the polls. The voting was done in a church hall that is the size of a living room. I didn't go inside, but she gamely went inside with her walker, and came out five minutes later with a smile on her face. This was far different from a city polling place, but the determination on the voter's faces was the same. It is truly amazing that so many people line up and make a choice as to who will lead them for the next four years. I have several ancestors who fought in the Revolution. I think they would be very pleased. Tonight I shall watch the returns, carefully inputting numbers into a spreadsheet I built. Yep, I'm an addict, and this is my every other year fix! If you haven't voted, do so, it is a great privalage.
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